I feel like this question has been asked over and over, and answered so expertly - and yet, I struggle to find the correct direction.
I have several children (at this point, count doesn't really matter

I've spend time looking at Accu-Scope (EXC-120, 3000, etc), Labomed Lx400, briefly at Amscope, etc. However, I'm not really a fan of what I'm seeing, and am coming around to realize that I probably should buy something used and of better quality and .. pedigree?

I'd like to go trinocular - photography isn't the first 'objective', but it ought to be an option. I don't need it to be portable/battery/etc. Plan optics would be nice, as would a good mechanical stage. Somewhat kid-proof is ok, but I'm happy to teach them to respect the equipment.
A quick glance through ebay shows several Olympus BH2s, with teaching arms, cams, etc. However, I'm stuck at knowing what to look for / how to spot the duds. PeteM - any chance I can get your famous PDF?

Thanks for any suggestions you might have. I'm open to specific eBay suggestions as well, or trusted used suppliers, etc too.